You have good thoughts, but I think it’s a mistake to paint “hot” with an entirely negative brush. Sometimes (I think mostly) “hot” is used to describe a certain type of look: toned, tan and (for women) curvy. Girls that don’t quite fit this are relegated to “cute,” and so on. And it’s true people make assumptions about others based on these categories, for good or ill. But a “hot” woman may well be upstanding and worth pursuing; she may in fact be struggling in the OPPOSITE direction to be recognized for something beyond a fit body and fantastic bone structure. Until you engage someone in conversation, I think it’s difficult to make a judgment on who they might be.

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